As a member of a gym you’ll need to familiarize yourself with the different weights, finding out which ones are comparable to your strength. Pick weights that are in the range of not too light or not to heavy. Please, do not stress your body on the first day with all your enthusiastic training. Take it slow and rest after your workout.
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