What struck us most about the entire experience – what absolutely floored us – was how most of them STILL hadn’t done ANYTHING with the information!!!
Make sure that you buy her the birthday present from the theme that she will surely like. This will include items that are according to her personal lifestyle, individual taste and preferences.
Whatever kind of body jewelry you use or wear it is important to keep some pointers in mind. Such as what kind of material is that specific body jewelry made off, is your skin allergic to it and is the piercing for the body jewelry done in a sterile and antiseptic environment.
Baggy jeans and worn out shirts won’t get you a man. Dressing like a teenager or wearing your mother’s clothes won’t do either. You need to wear clothes that are in style yet is complimenting your beauty and body. It would be nice if you wear something sexy once in a while. Show off your curves or your long legs. You will get a man’s attention that way. Also, make sure that your hair doesn’t cover your face. If you think that you crowning glory isn’t doing any magic, cut your hair and change its style.
Take a good hard look at your beliefs about diet, exercise, and weight and your body. Do you believe that because you are a couch potato or a computer geek, your lack of exercise will cause you to become fat? We usually get what we expect to get so don’t be surprised when you look in the mirror and see your fat self. Our beliefs, thoughts and expectations firmly dictate our reality. so if you want to change your reality, first you need to change your thoughts.
Some aspects of beauty standards have changed, but not much. We do see more black models and beautiful black women, but when you look at the majority of the more famous ones, (Tyra, Halle, Janet, Vanessa Williams, Beyonce, a few of whom have had plastic surgery, on their noses and other body parts), you can see straight away that they have many Caucasian attributes: small, pinched noses, lighter complexion, lighter eyes, straight, lightly colored hair. It is rare that you will see a model with very dark skin, a tight afro, wide, round, larger nose, and full, large lips. Flip through any issue of Vogue or Glamour and look for that image I just described. Then look for the first image I described.
I accept the rhythm of life with its periods of great activity and fellowship with others and its slow periods giving me the opportunity to assimilate what i have learned and tune into myself.